Errrrr....Exterior stlye feminine? Cant really agree with you on that one. Cheap looking interior? As a big Pontiac fan and supporter I can honestly say that with the only exception being the Sunfire, the Grand-Am has one of the cheapest looking interiors on the road, I owned one and have riden in several. ABS optional? Not on my 06 GT it wasnt. As for the "other crap" packaged with the sunroof you refer to, yeah that would be correct if you consider a 6-disc changer, 8 speaker system, and 17" chrome wheels crap!?
And the side curtain airbags are not standard, not sure which car or trim level your speaking of. Also remember what price bracket your in, your not gonna get a car that "looks" like its worth 35K for one that costs 25K.